are you devastated?

All of us face disappointments in some point of our life and fall back not literally but emotionally. And getting up from the depth needs a lot of effort and understanding. It doesn't take any special talent to give up but people who have emerged out successfully know what it really needs. None of us are going to get to a place where there are no disappointments. So face things with strength and determination. Deep emotional hurts do not happen due to heavy troubles but they happen due to series of frustrations and irritations in our daily lives. If we don't deal with the minor ones then devastation and despair are never far away. Many of them don't have a clue that the problem could have started long back due to a simple issue which they failed to work. Yes it is annoying to face frustrations but if you allow them to pile up then it becomes unbearable and when you release those negative energies its painful for everyone. Sort out issues with your friends or spouse on time. Do not allow any distance to grow if you want the relationship to work. Hurting somebody emotionally is stronger that killing somebody physically

When disappointments press like a rock, you can either let it press you down until you become discouraged, even devastated, or you can use it as a stepping-stone to better things. Learn to adapt and adjust. You can do it! Face disappointment at its onset and be quick to make any adjustments required to remedy the situation. You may have fallen down but you don't have to stay down always......

do you like yourself?

The most difficult question to answer but check yourself honestly. After years of personal talks with people i realized that many of them don't approve themselves. Some know it and others don't have a clue. This is because we see ourselves through others viewpoints. We think we are not worthy to be loved because others have rejected us and then follows self rejection and self hatred. But its a lie which we've been believing for way too long. It is here one should be very careful because if these emotions gets deeply rooted then you become a victim of emotional mishap and straightening your thoughts become almost impossible. The one person with whom we spend our entire lifetime is ourselves and how agonizing it is if we are not comfortable with ourselves?

We may not be important to ourselves but we are definetly important to the creator or creation. All of us are created for a specific purpose. We need to focus on this issue and feel important about our own very existence. Do not turn inward all the time and feel bad for things that have gone wrong or for the things that failed to happen in your life. Your every loss is every gain in spiritual walk. There is something positive about every situation.

At the same time we should not love ourselves too much in a very self centered way and finally turn out to be a narcissist. Every feeling or emotion needs a balance. We should develop that kind of mature love to handle ourselves. Find your strength and blessings and feel contented. Wake up. ITS TIME TO MOVE ON